The great mystery of modern relationships.I, beknownst to those of you who know me or read my blog, am a borderline sex addict. (Namely in my current relationship, as I find my partner irresistible, delicious, and I'm in love with him.) Contrary to common relationships, I, the female, am the one regularly complaining that I want more sex. For the record, I'm cute, in shape, always 100% ready and rearing to go, and yet lately I feel I must always initiate and sometimes even ask for sex. All this, and here I discover he's watching porn while I take a shower.
Can someone explain this to me please? I doubt there is really a man in existence who ceases to watch the stuff while he's in a relationship, granted; but why? Especially when he may have a spunky lover like myself? And, if such is the unavoidable case, how do I manage to live with it and not take it personally??
I don't think any of us will every get an answer to those questions. I've caught my husband watching/searching the internet for porn on several occasions. There I was, perfectly happy to "give it up", and he's watching other people do it?!? Ridiculous. It completely turns me off too. And I did take it personally.
ReplyDeleteBut, I've heard that some couples actually like to watch it together, to "spice" things up. I'm still trying to figure out how that works?
ugh, no thanks. Seriously, do I really want a another woman's vagina involved during sex with my partner? Even strictly visual and non-tangible ones? That's akin to those blouses that have images of beautiful women on them. I'll never understand trying to upstage myself with my own shirt. Let alone my own computer screen. That takes a whole new species of non-jealous woman, in my opinion.
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