tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6330099045524181144.post1669777241499911588..comments2023-10-07T01:48:21.262-07:00Comments on I Fight for the Phoque.: Expo of Modern RelationshipAudrey Saylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09661886748715859101noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6330099045524181144.post-38108201318749321592011-07-14T20:07:56.564-07:002011-07-14T20:07:56.564-07:00bravo to Cereal Stray. I can only agree. I am a ve...bravo to Cereal Stray. I can only agree. I am a very reluctant dater myself. I go months without so much as brushing hands with a man... but then someone will come along that ignites the gunpowder. I just have to get the hang of letting someone take the lead, because even when there's interest I usually scare them away. <br />But I won't settle either. I can't. It makes me physically nauseous to lead on a lovesick man. Mostly because I know what it is to pine for someone who's just not that into you...foxyroxyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08547829282596960901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6330099045524181144.post-7838357338892385422011-07-09T18:20:13.726-07:002011-07-09T18:20:13.726-07:00"...every time I hear a woman say the words &..."...every time I hear a woman say the words "my boyfriend" she immediately sounds like she's in a cage to me."<br /><br />Me too. I know it's not fair to them. I know they would argue this is where they want to be. They're happy. I just can't get my head around it!<br /><br />I too am afraid of settling but I have a secret weapon. A feeling. I've experienced once many years ago in a brief fling. With him I became exactly the person I want to be. I was effortless and lovely. In my 20 years of dating / relationships it has only happened this once and stands out like a glowing beacon! I won't settle until I feel THAT again. It will be easy to spot and i'll know it to be RIGHT.<br /><br />This experience has saved me much turmoil.Cereal Strayhttp://www.ahotbath.comnoreply@blogger.com